"Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting, it means letting go of the thing that the person is holding of you" - Trevor Noah's mom

She always said: "Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting, it means letting go of the thing that the person is holding of you"; as opposed, it's not you letting them into your life, it's just going like, yeah that happened, I feel for them, I understand many of the things that made them do what they did, and I let go - Trevor Noah at DOAC